HOW TO DATE A MAN?

HOW TO DATE A MAN?

Whether you see your date everyday or not, there are several steps to take in preparation for the big date. Give subtle hints that you are excited for the upcoming date and you are really looking forward to it.

Look your best. Everyone deserves to show off their best features all the time. If you see your date everyday (i.e. work, school, the gym...etc) you can increase the man's interest by showing off your best features. If you look your best you will feel more comfortable and confident.

Everyone should show off and flaunt their body type! There are about five different body types: Hourglass, pear, apple, triangle and rectangle.

Each body type has their own best feature and you can dress to enhance yours! [1]

Hourglass: Curves. Wear blouses and dresses that enhance your voluptuous curves. Clothing should be tight around waist and form fitting below.

Pear: Shoulders and stomach. Wear tank tops and tight shirts to show off your thin stomach and awesome shoulders. Apple: Legs. Dresses and skirts. Not too short though, you don't want to be too revealing! Triangle: Legs. Rectangle: Arms. Wear t-shirts and tanks.

Be intriguing . Keep him wanting more. Don't give too much away in small conversations before the date. Instead, answer his questions with something that could lead to a deeper conversation later.

For example: If he asks a question along the lines of "What do you like to do for fun?" answer with something vague, such as "Well... I love adventures." By leaving the answer open-ended he will want to continue asking these questions and get to know more about you.

Get to know his interests and let him entertain you. Dating will be a lot easier and more fun if you get to know his interests before the date. This will open up an endless amount of conversations for your date and it will also be helpful if you find interests you have in common. People enjoy talking about themselves so you can prepare by getting some questions ready to ask during the date. For example: You could say, "I noticed you have a basketball at your desk, do you like to play?"

If you find a mutual interest, don't be afraid to recommend participating in the interest together at some point. For example: If you find that you both enjoy hiking you could say, "I know this great trail not too far from here, let me know if you are interested in hiking it someday!" There is room for compromise, but don't change yourself for the sake of the guy's interests and don't expect him to always do what interests you. Act flirtatious . It's the best known tool for getting a man's attention. Men enjoy being flirted with as it boosts their confidence level and initiates a playful demeanor for both parties. [2]

Although flirting is a fun game, remember to keep the initial flirtation low as you don't want to seem too brash.

A fun way of being flirtatious is to tease. Remember, teasing is not meant to insult, but instead, meant to bait in a flattering or sensual way. Don't be afraid to touch his arm or hand and laugh in light conversations for emphasis. For example: If he happens to make a quick joke in passing by, lightly touch is upper arm and turn your head up laughing while saying something like, "oh, you're so funny!" [3]

Know what to wear. It is very important to dress appropriately for the date so you do not look or feel uncomfortable in the selected environment. Dates can range from fancy restaurants, to casual dive bars, to movies...etc. You wouldn't want to go to a movie theatre in a cocktail dress! If you are going to a restaurant you have never been to, look it up on the internet to get the feel of how casual or fancy it is.

Don't be afraid to accessorize! If you are going to a casual place wearing jeans and a simple top, accessorize with a bright colored necklace or earrings. These bright accessories will also enhance your facial features and make your outfit (and yourself) look more interesting while staying casual and simple.

Apply natural makeup . You don't want to go on your first date with a mask of makeup on. You will want your natural beauty to shine so there are no surprises for later. Stick to the basics and avoid heavy layers and bright eyeshadows. A good way to add some fun to natural makeup is to add a brighter colored lipstick or gloss.

Stay calm and confident. Avoid getting flustered and nervous. If you become over-excited or overwhelmed you will increase your blood pressure and your body will react with anxiety by becoming sweaty and/or shaky and you may even become sick to your stomach. [4] Remember to relax by telling yourself this is just another normal night of fun.

When getting ready, there are a couple things you can try to calm your nerves before your date arrives. Try drinking tonic water or ginger ale, listening to relaxing music or watching a funny show or reading a book or playing a puzzle to keep your mind occupied.

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